A Level Religious Studies - Buddhism and Sex
Using your knowledge of Buddhism and extra research, what are most
Buddhists likely to say about extra-marital sex?
Complete sexual continence is
considered an essential feature of the monastic life. Intercourse is
automatically a Parajika offense. A monk who performs such is considered to
have expelled himself from the Order, and is no longer in communion with the
other monks. Any acts of a sexually unbecoming nature falling short of
intercourse result in suspension and require expiation. Samaneras, or
novice monks, who break their training in this respect are disrobed.
What, it may be asked, of
"adultery," i.e., extra-marital sexual relations? The short answer is
that, quite obviously, this is something to be avoided. But the point should be
made that Buddhism does not regard this, or any other sexual irregularities and
deviations, as somehow uniquely wicked.
Buddhists should try to behave
themselves sexually — but they should learn to exercise the maximum of charity
towards the lapses of others. If a marriage has irretrievably broken down, even
though it may continue in name, the situation is quite different.
Quotes from the Dalai Lama
“Remember that the best
relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for
each other.”
“If you engage in sexual
intercourse within an ordinary mental context, there is no benefit.”
“A Buddha has no use for sexual
intercourse.”
“Sexual desire is blind and that
poses a problem.”
Teachings
“Do not indulge a sexual
misconduct.” 3rd precept.
Hurting people through sex will
lead to bad karma and therefore a worse rebirth.
Sexual attraction generally
involves tanha (craving) which is one of the main causes of dukkha, keeping us
in samsara.
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